Finally Crack the Code on Relationships!
“After working with Thomas I'm finally able to understand what it means to be present in relationships.”
Michael (52, C-level manager)
“I changed the way I show up for myself and my wife and it has drastically improved our marriage for both of us.”
Rob (35, software engineer)
“I used to shut down in conflict. Now I'm able to see things through.”
Ashok (28, real estate consultant)
You’re tired of repeating the same relationship patterns?
You're done with unintentionally pushing partners away?
With feeling engulfed or smothered by your partner?
Chronic low-grade loneliness you pass off as "needing space."
Suppressing needs until they explode or turn into resentment?
You want a secure, healthy relationship—but don’t know how to get there?
But you are ready to make the necessary changes now? Then this is for you:
Join the Avoidant Reset Code.
After this program you will:
- Understand where your avoidance actually comes from — not just the symptoms
- Have effective strategies to resolve the root causes and develop secure attachment
- Have your formula for navigating difficult relationship situations instead of shutting down
- Have the know-how & emotional skills to handle your own feelings and your partner's
- Create the conditions for your partner to actually feel close to you
- Be sure where your relationship stands — and what it needs
...and by all of that:
Stop enduring your relationships — and start actually enjoying them
Start your journey to relationships that feel great!
This work goes deeper than advice or learning new concepts. It’s about real, lasting change. In ARC you will, for 3 months:
- Participate in weekly live group sessions with Thomas & Maika focused on the insights you need to move forward
- Implement your insights in daily exercises to build new behaviors in your relationships
- Get support in weekly Q&A sessions with Thomas & Maika, and perhaps most importantly:
- Be part of and engage with a community of men doing the same work
ARC is exclusively for men, and specifically tailored for men with avoidant attachment tendencies, both in a relationship or currently single.
Program details
Start of the program
The 3-month-program will start in the first week of June 2026.
Audience
The program is exclusively for men.
Live sessions and recordings
The program has two weekly live sessions – a discovery session and a Q&A-Session.
All live sessions will be recorded and made available to members of the program. Discovery sessions will only be available as recordings after this first run of the program, while Q&A sessions will continue to be held live.
Founding members have the advantage that what Maika & Thomas present, discuss and offer support for will be molded to the groups specific concerns and needs in the Discovery sessions as the program progresses, in addition to the Q&A Sessions.
This is not therapy
ARC is a coaching and personal development program. It is not a form of therapy, counseling, or medical treatment, and is not a substitute for professional mental health support. If you are experiencing a mental health crisis or require clinical support, please seek help from a qualified professional. By enrolling, you acknowledge that you understand this distinction.
When you can join
Sign-up is open now, until May 31, 11:59 PM. This is the first run of the program and we want to keep a safe, protected space for our founding members, so joining later will only be possible after September 2026.
Price
For this first run, the one-time-cost of the program is 600 € (later it will be at 1500 €.)
Refund policy
You may request a full refund within 14 days of the program start date (until June 14, 11:59 PM). To do so you can send us a message using the contact form or from inside the members area.
FAQs
Yes. After going through the modules of the program, you can stay on for a small fee (we still have to figure out the price , but it will be affordable). You'll continue to have full access to the ARC program curriculum and recordings, as well as ongoing participation in live Q&A sessions and community forums. Discovery Sessions remain accessible as recordings.
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