The Avoidant Reset Code is open.

A 3-month program for men who are ready to stop repeating the same relationship patterns.

Enrollment is open until Sunday, May 31, 11:59 PM (Pacific Time). This is the first run, with founding member pricing — after that, the program won't open again until September 2026. 

You’re tired of repeating the same relationship patterns?

You're done with unintentionally pushing partners away?

With feeling engulfed or smothered by your partner?

Chronic low-grade loneliness you pass off as "needing space."

Suppressing needs until they explode or turn into resentment?

You want a secure, healthy relationship—but don’t know how to get there?

The hard part isn't wanting to change, though...

Most men who end up here have wanted things to be different for a long time. What's been missing isn't motivation — it's understanding where their patterns come from, and a structured and effective way to work on changing them. That's exactly what the next three months are for.

After this program you will:

- Understand where your avoidance actually comes from — not just the symptoms
- Have effective strategies to resolve the root causes and develop secure attachment
- Have your formula for navigating difficult relationship situations instead of shutting down
- Have the know-how & emotional skills to handle your own feelings and your partner's 
- Create the conditions for your partner to actually feel close to you

- Be sure where your relationship stands — and what it needs

This work goes deeper than advice or learning new concepts. It’s about real, lasting change. In ARC you will, for 3 months: 

- Participate in weekly live group sessions with Thomas & Maika focused on the insights you need to move forward

- Implement your insights in daily exercises to build new behaviors in your relationships

- Get support in weekly Q&A sessions with Thomas & Maika, and perhaps most importantly:

- Be part of and engage with a community of men doing the same work

ARC is exclusively for men, and specifically tailored for men with avoidant attachment tendencies, whether they're in a relationship or currently single.

This is the first run of ARC. Founding members get the full 3-month program — weekly live sessions, daily exercises, Q&A sessions, the community, and more — and a direct hand in shaping how the program unfolds. After this run, ARC will be priced at 1500 €. 

For this first run, your one-time investment is 600 €.

We're confident we can help you get better results with this program. However, if ARC turns out not to be right for you, you can request a full refund within 14 days of the program start (until June 14, 11:59 PM, Pacific Time) — through the contact form or from inside the members area.

Start of the program

The 3-month program will start on June 1, 2026.

Format

Two weekly live sessions — a discovery session and a Q&A session. All sessions are recorded and available to members.

Enrollment window

Open now through Sunday, May 31, 11:59 PM (Pacific Time). After this, the program won't reopen until September 2026.

Founding members run 

Founding members have the advantage that what Maika & Thomas present, discuss and offer support for will be molded to the group's specific concerns and needs.

This is not therapy

ARC is a coaching and personal development program. It is not a form of therapy, counseling, or medical treatment, and is not a substitute for professional mental health support. If you are experiencing a mental health crisis or require clinical support, please seek help from a qualified professional. By enrolling, you acknowledge that you understand this distinction.

Refund policy

You may request a full refund within 14 days of the program start date (until June 14, 11:59 PM, Pacific Time). To do so you can send us a message using the contact form or from inside the members area.

If you have any questions, feel free to reach out here.